Love and Hate

They say until you fall in love...you don't know how its really like...

From my own experience, I would say until you hate someone...you don’t know what its really like!

Love has been described, talked about and eulogized since centuries…but what about hatred? Why have people not written much on hatred…a feeling much stronger than love…which if envelopes someone ...is really difficult to get rid of it!!

Recently, I am going through this awful, all-encompassing feeling…occupying major part of my heart and mind….! It is really strange but all my life…I have never encountered this feeling before! What I thought of as hatred at different points of my life …now seems so insignificant…in contrast with this feeling…

Trying very hard not to give way to this bitter feeling…which of course…leaves a real bad taste, not only in your mouth but also in the imprints of your mind…I am not being very successful….

So, I am repeating the following to myself:
• Forgive and Forget!
• Forgiving is divine!
• Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much!
• A wise man will make haste to forgive…!

But you only forgive when the other person is sorry or at least realizes his or her mistake…and tries not to repeat…but here I don’t see any such reactions…..there I go again…..can't get over this feeling…

Funny, how we think its very difficult to get over someone you LOVE...
Believe me...its far more difficult to get over a person you HATE!!